WHEN A DOCTOR ISN’T ENOUGH. Wall Street Journal, Tuesday, August 16, 2011.
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Project Pink Diary | Help and Hope | No. 8
Listen To The Experts.
One friend was certain my doctor was wrong and that my hair would NOT come out from my type of chemotherapy. I believed her and was devastated when the tub began to clog with my falling hair. As hopeful as people try to be, let your doctor guide you when you need it most.
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Project Pink Diary | Help and Hope | No.7
Be A Movie Star.
When I was sick people would tell me stories of others who hadn’t gotten through their illness. (This falls under that same category as the people who told me bad pregnancy stories in my 5th month–UGH). Do your best Julia Roberts acting and smile through it because cancer makes people say stupid things. Then yell “Cut!” in your head and walk away–preferably to your trailer with sunglasses and a fluffy dog and remind yourself that you will win this fight.
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Project Pink | Help and Hope | No. 6
Just say no.
There are times when whatever it is, it isn’t what you need right then Like when well meaning people want to come over and help when really all you want is just to be alone or be with someone else. Just say “no”. It’s awkward at first but you need to take care of you now–and that means being honest with yourself and with those who love you.
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Project Pink Diary | Help and Hope | No. 5
Do ask, do tell.
Ask for help if you need it, ask how to help if you can give it. I had a friend who wanted to do my laundry—and I didn’t like the idea of my soiled duds laid out in front of her. 4 weeks of chemo later, I was so tired I was happy to let her do my dirty work.
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